i get so , so sad seeing trans women using 4chan speak to belittle themselves and put shit like “manmoder” and “will never be a woman” in their bios . they judge themselves in such scathingly sharp ways and get lost in cycles of this self loathing hate train . i hate seeing channer transfems comment under pictures of people who pass , saying “i dont look like you i need to off myself” or “you have it easy in life , passoid , you do not deserve to complain abt being trans”
this is why i hate 4chan so much . it infects trans people with this vitriolic self-hatred that turns into them just being activley transphobic to other people while tearing themselves apart . it’s self harm . people make the fact that they ( in their own opinion) dont pass their whole persona , it’s all they talk about . it’s like an obsession with blind self-hatred .
and when i see someone like this , i want to distance myself . i dont want to leave people like this alone , i want to help them , but this constant stream of negativity is too much for anyone to handle , including the person spurring on said negativity . i hate what this sort of culture has done to so many trans girls who just do not deserve to be in this infinite rut , it’s horrible to see
@acarsdrama ofc its a boeing 😭
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@acarsdrama ofc its a boeing
RE: https://infosec.exchange/@acarsdrama/112872883986020104
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In order to avoid the measly peasants, the official hashtag for my loyal supporters has changed! Let's hope the poors don't find #Mastodon4Harris
posting this again for the new hashtag #Mastodon4Harris (they moved, note the "4" instead of "for")
i'm currently unemployed and job searching and couch surfing. i'm an impoverished neurodivergent trans woman just trying to survive and find stability
if you enjoy seeing stuff about the memoir i'm writing, the work i've done with FediPact, the rad instances i've set up at cyberpunk.lol and cyberpunk.gay, the cool clothes i DIY together, my pirate radio station vantaradio, my awesome videos, my amazing selfies, or just my posting generally -- then know that your support helps me continue being able to exist and do all those things
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@Clover they opted for personally souring half of fedi’s perception of her campaign and supporters throughout all of this, when if they just did that, they would’ve made way more of a positive impact and did free pr for her while helping so many people. all for a molecule of water in comparison to the ocean of donations from infinitely more rich and powerful figures and organizations.
Please help a queer pub in Budapest run by immigrants pay debt and stay open
Due to law changes and prolonged heatwave in Hungary (massive decline in customers) a local queer pub run by my friends is struggling financially
That business is crucial for the lives of multiple people, it allows them to pay for meds and ongoing expenses as well as serving them as a legal anchor in the EU
More details/original #MutualAid post: https://awawa.club/notice/AjtMHltO6PAxzZNmNM
Ko-Fi of the temporary treasurer managing the funds: https://ko-fi.com/byteawawaclub
Instagram of the bar: https://www.instagram.com/paintitblack_bar
Supporters who donated €20+ will get a 20% discount.
Address: Bajza utca 36, Budapest, Hungary
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