some cishet men are delusional . “i’ll only date a girl if she’s 5’4 or under and less than 65kg oh and also she has to be shaved clean” are you insane ? do u even like women ? All of them r beautiful , no matter their shape and size ,,, ur just missing out

@ellie i mean its cool to have a type, however those men will also be offended and appalled at the idea that they have to fit some sort of category as well for the woman to find them personally attractive

@ellie@yearning.gay THIS

its so fucking insane like ,,, dude ,, plush women who are cute n squishy and huggable , , , big tall women ,, women with cute fuzzy hair all over their bodies ,,, a divine sense of beauty in all of them,

RE: https://yearning.gay/objects/6c85de0b-dcc0-4af2-941c-2bec1ab7643a

@ellie yeah i agree thats just a very entitled way of thinking lol

@ellie yeah!!
but like theres conflating between "all women are beautiful" and "id date any woman"
of course when that type of cishet man says it he means neither. but. it's not inherently bad to be like "yeah i like my women like this :3"

@nbsp im not talking abt having a type ,, u can have a type all u want ,,, im talking abt when men only respect women that for their perfect criteria and insult & dehumanize the rest of them

@ellie well that's not what "ill only date a girl if she's" means,,, unless im like super not in touch with the dogwhistles

@nbsp well to some cishet men “the only woman i’ll date” also means “the only woman i will see as human and respect” dfjghdfgdfh ,,, thats the type of guy i was posting abt

@ellie continually surprised at new novel types of guys

@ellie The Federated Verse When People Have Types And Attractions They Can't Control (Although I Agree People Are Usually Assholish About It).

@Detour im not sayin u cant have a type it just upsets me when ppl belittle others n call them ugly cuz they dont fit their obtuse beauty standards . the the type of cis man im talking about

@Detour mb if my original post didnt make this clear i just wanted 2 sound sassy n funny dkjfhgdfhdfh

@ellie OHHHH Nah That's MB, DW.

@ellie@yearning.gay men be like "i only date women who are 6 foot" while being 1'2'

@ellie @Detour I think it has to do with a lack of maturity, perhaps? After all, looks can change over time. Mine certainly have. It's best to deal with the core part of a person, their inner self that's going to stay "them".