@ellie don't you just blurt it out?
hey, good morning, nice to see you, I'm trans and pansexual btw, I like your top, weather's nice isn't it.
@ellie Most of the time I did it in a funny way (like posting patch notes of myself in a discord channel in which my name and pronouns were updated and the support of the cis version was deprecated) it was definitely less stressful for me that way compared to the one time I came out in a serious way to a friend
@ellie wait the 1st of april and if they don't react well you can cancel your coming out by saying "april fool haha joke i no trans haha imagine if i was"