i dont rlly like when u ask someone why something / someone is bad and they just reply with “problematic” . cuz that could mean like anything and what counts as “problematic” varies from person to person dfkjhgdjfgh just like directly say what it was pls thatd be sooo much clearer
@ellie@yearning.gay I think adults giving you flirtatious comments, especially in the sexual variety is reprehensible. It’s shameful really, and it upsets me that you can’t just have your own space without strangers intruding and making you feel uncomfortable. I don’t care if you occasionally post something raunchy, it’s not an excuse for adults to engage in inappropriate conversations with you. Whenever I see one of your posts that are a bit too raunchy/past the line you know what I do? I move on. I don’t sit there engaging with it and making both you and I uncomfortable. Why can’t more people do that?
@ellie@yearning.gay (sorry I know your post was prolly a joke or something but it upsets me that you can’t have a space for yourself)
like if I'm asking the question I very much want to know what happened or what they did
i don't get it like it's actually pretty easy to not be a creep?
i follow a few teenager who post... teenager stuff! and i don't engage with stuff that's not appropriate for me to do so, nor do i try to be a parent sub for them because that's groomer shit
and then i enjoy the rest
this is why we can't have nice things